Fertility Treatment and Involuntary Childlessness2026-10-05T12:08:46+02:00

Fertility Treatment and Involuntary Childlessness

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When the Desire for a Child Becomes a Challenge

Fertility treatment is not just about examinations, hormones, egg retrieval, and treatment attempts. For many, it also becomes an emotionally demanding process characterized by hope, waiting, uncertainty, and disappointment.

When the desire for a child takes up a lot of space, fertility treatment can affect your mood, self-esteem, relationship, other social connections, and your daily life.

At Psykologhuset Enigma, we offer psychological support for women, men, and couples undergoing fertility treatment or living with involuntary childlessness.

You can receive help from our specialized psychologists in Hillerød or online.

How we help you

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Choose your psychologist

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Book an appointment

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Treatment

Meet our psychologists

Meet our psychologists

With us, you will exclusively meet clinical psychologists who are authorized by the Danish Supervisory Board of Psychological Practice and members of the Danish Psychological Association.

We invest in our professional development through ongoing continuing education and supervision, ensuring that our work meets the highest professional and ethical standards.

We follow the Ethical Principles for Nordic Psychologists and are subject to professional confidentiality.

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Psychological Support During Fertility Treatment

People react differently to a fertility journey.

Some experience periods of great optimism and hope. Others feel stress, sadness, anger, low self-esteem, worry, or a sense that life has been put on pause. And often, these feelings shift along the way.

At times, fertility treatment can come to occupy almost everything. The calendar is organized around treatments, and thoughts about pregnancy, test results, and the next attempt can be difficult to set aside.

In these moments, psychological sessions can help create a sanctuary and assist you in regaining a foothold in the parts of life you can actually influence.

How Can a Psychologist Help During Fertility Treatment?

Psychological support does not change the outcome of the fertility treatment itself.

Instead, the purpose is to help you manage the psychological burden that the treatment process can entail.

A course of therapy can, among other things, help you to:

  • Manage worries and racing thoughts
    Gain concrete strategies for periods of waiting, uncertainty, and the many thoughts about what will happen next.
  • Process grief and disappointment
    Make space for the losses and emotions that can follow a failed treatment attempt.
  • Regain control
    Distinguish between what you can influence and what lies outside of your control.
  • Take care of your relationship
    Understand your different reactions and maintain a connection with each other during treatment.
  • Set boundaries with your surroundings
    Find effective ways to handle questions, advice, and expectations from family, friends, and colleagues.
  • Maintain a life alongside fertility treatment
    Work toward ensuring the fertility process does not become the only measure of how life is going.
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When Fertility Treatment Affects the Relationship

Involuntary childlessness and fertility treatment can place significant pressure on a relationship.

At Psykologhuset Enigma, you can come together for sessions where we can work on, among other things:

  • how you talk about the fertility treatment
  • different ways of managing grief and stress
  • how you maintain closeness and connection
  • sexuality and intimacy
  • difficult decisions regarding treatment
  • boundaries in relation to family and friends
  • how to prevent the fertility project from overshadowing your entire relationship.

The goal is not necessarily for you to react in the same way, but for you to better understand and support each other.

Psychologist in Hillerød or Online

At Psykologhuset Enigma, we offer psychological support in connection with fertility treatment and involuntary childlessness in our clinic in Hillerød.

You can also choose online psychological sessions if that better fits with treatments, work, or your daily life.

Fertility treatment can encompass hope, grief, waiting, and difficult decisions.

At Psykologhuset Enigma, you can find a confidential space to talk about what matters—alone or together with your partner.

We help you stand more securely in the process, even when the outcome is still unknown.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Should my partner participate?2026-10-05T12:11:59+02:00

No. You can come alone, even if you are in a relationship. If the fertility process is affecting both of you or your relationship, you can also choose to come together.

Do You Offer Psychological Support for Infertility in Hillerød and Copenhagen?2026-10-05T12:12:33+02:00

Psykologhuset Enigma offers consultations for infertility and fertility treatment in Hillerød and online. We do not yet offer these consultations in Copenhagen.

Can I see a psychologist after a failed IVF attempt?2026-10-05T12:15:23+02:00

Yes. A failed IVF or fertility attempt can be experienced as a significant loss. Psychological consultations can help process the grief and assist in navigating a potential new treatment attempt.

Can we attend therapy together as a couple?2026-10-05T12:14:23+02:00

Yes. Couples can benefit greatly from sessions during fertility treatment, especially if you react differently to the process or find that it affects your communication, intimacy, or relationship.

Is it normal to be psychologically affected by fertility treatment?2026-10-05T12:14:03+02:00

Yes. Fertility treatment can be an emotionally demanding process, with shifts between hope, uncertainty, and disappointments. Therefore, it is not uncommon to experience stress, sadness, worries, or grief along the way.

Can a psychologist help during fertility treatment?2026-10-05T12:13:53+02:00

Yes. A psychologist can help with the psychological and relational burdens that may arise during fertility treatment, such as stress, grief, anxiety, racing thoughts, a sense of loss of control, and relationship issues.

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